Now that I am older, I am thoroughly convinced that kids grow up too quickly. Yeah, yeah, I have heard many say that they cannot wait for
their kids to get out of the house and get out on their own. But I never really felt that way. Perhaps it is because I simply had a lot of trouble growing up myself. I like having my
kids around. I still do. I am happy that the older ones are making their way in life. I love seeing my grand-kids, but I also miss the days of having my kids home as kids.
Several years back, my Dad told me that the years seemed to fly by and that the older you get the quicker they go. Today, I agree with
him. I understand why he said that to me. When you are younger you think you will aways have time. Time to get things done, time to make it right, time to do it over, time, time,
time. But it is not so. In each of our lives, a meter runs and there is a limit to the number of our days.
Kids growing up is one of the indicators that the meter is running. You start with an attraction, then comes a date, then a courtship,
then a marriage, then a pregnancy, then a birth, then a baby, a toddler, a little boy or girl, a teen-ager, a young adult, then another marriage, a grand-child, and then old age and
a departure from life. Suddenly it is all over and the world no longer knows your name. Your possessions and the things so dear to you are distributed to others and you become an
occasional memory from the past.
If I sound somber, it is because this is true. It is the way life is. You get a window or a season to make your mark upon the world and
then you fade away and you are no more. And there is a limit to what man can and cannot do.
Alexander the Great began as a young man of seventeen years and by the time he was thirty, he had seen and conquered more of the known
world than any other man prior to his time. Dying at age thirty-four, he left everything here. He made a great mark upon the world, but he still died and faded away. His kingdom was
parceled up among his generals and the world moved on.
I think the best way to understand life is to think of a pool of water and a pebble. You are cast into life as a pebble into the pool and
you make a splash. The ripples go out in ever-widening circles, but as they go they lose their height and the magnitude of their influence. Eventually the water swallows up all
evidence of the pebbles entrance into the water and the pool is quiet again.
You get one shot in the pool. You get to make one splash. Then you fade away.
So I get up every day and I try to appreciate the day for what it is. I try to think of my children and how fortunate I am to have them
and to have experienced growing up with them. I ask God to protect and keep them and to give them hearts to appreciate the time they have. The Bible states that, "Today, this is the
day of salvation. If you will hear His voice, do not harden your heart against it..." I do not want to have a heart hardened to the call and the voice of God as He daily extends grace
and mercy towards me and my family.
If you look at the pictures above you will see some moments in the lives of my children as they were growing up. In these moments there is
no meanness, no anxiety, no hardness. Instead there is joy, happiness, discovery and hope.
Jesus said to let the little children come to Him. He said that unless we become as a little child we would not see the kingdom of
heaven. I want to be a little child in Jesus' kingdom. I hope that today, you can also hear His call.
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